Yes, that is because you don't come from there, you don't have to face right here the shit you have in you! All that you've been trying to escape from is there!
It is great in one hand; I can identify what it is exactly and evoid it much better that if I would not know what it is, right? But it is also really bad in the sense that... I may not be abble to, because that is me, it is in me!